Maybe St James really has changed!
Posted: Sun Mar 28, 2004 6:56 pm
Here's an extraordinary post from Katherine Watson (apparently, a teacher at St James boys' school) on the Yahoo Anti-SES discussion group (http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/anti_ses/message/66)
I think fellow survivors of the appalling St Vedast boys' school may be rather astonished at some of the views she expresses. If only a few people like her had been around in the St Vedast days! I have copied her post below:
Hello, anonymous adrasteia (nice name)
I am the teacher at St James boys' school who separated the boys who
genuinely meditated from those who didn't want to. (Jack - nobody said 'at
home' - that was never the point, but never mind.) It happened like this.
Since
being asked to be a form teacher for the sixth form, I've become acutely aware
that most people don't actually meditate. I thought - this is daft and
hypocritical. So I asked how many people really did meditate during our
morning 10 minute 'meditation' session. Four or five people put their hands
up. So then I thought, this is REALLY daft. So I invited the ones who wanted
to meditate to take themselves off to a different room where they could
meditate in peace without the constant distraction of the people who didn't
value it. (Jack will back me up in saying it really is constant...) I decided
to
invite - and I stressed the word invite, since I think it is entirely an
individual's
business whether he or she meditates, prays, howls to the moon or whatever
provided it doesn't interfere with anyone else's peace of mind - the others to
try a range of alternative mind-calming, meditative-style exercises. Some of
them seem to like it. Some don't see any point in it. That's up to them. So
now all I ask is that people just sit quietly for that 10 minute period, so that
there can be just a little space and peace in what is normally a frantically
busy, noisy and exhausting day.
Incidentally, I don't know who made the remark about being 'disappointed' to
Jack. Personally I make a point of not wanting to know who has or has not
'joined'. I love 'em all and respect them as people - even though they drive
me crazy every day - regardless.
For the record: I have been a member of the SES for more than 40 years.
During that time I have questioned absolutely everything - sometimes directly
and openly, sometimes privately within myself. Many times I have come very
close to leaving, but so far I have always, after much soul-searching (OK, OK,
maybe there is no such thing as a soul, but you know what I mean for
heaven's sake) come to the conclusion that at the core of it is something that
to me is infinitely valuable. I don't think I need feel apologetic about that.
(And I'm happy to try to explain it if anyone asks.) I am an enthusiastic
labour
voter. I love jazz. I don't wear long skirts. Neither I nor my husband have
ever subscribed to all that 'subservient woman' stuff (which incidentally
seems quietly to have more or less died of its own accord). I teach academic
philosophy, which encourages me to think scepticism healthy. I do, however,
believe passionately in the basic freedom and integrity of every human being,
and his or her right to respect. I do my damndest - though it might not always
appear like that - to put that belief into practice in my work. I have taught
in
other schools, and I think that on balance St James nowadays does a pretty
good job.
Greetings to all,
Katharine Watson
I think fellow survivors of the appalling St Vedast boys' school may be rather astonished at some of the views she expresses. If only a few people like her had been around in the St Vedast days! I have copied her post below:
Hello, anonymous adrasteia (nice name)
I am the teacher at St James boys' school who separated the boys who
genuinely meditated from those who didn't want to. (Jack - nobody said 'at
home' - that was never the point, but never mind.) It happened like this.
Since
being asked to be a form teacher for the sixth form, I've become acutely aware
that most people don't actually meditate. I thought - this is daft and
hypocritical. So I asked how many people really did meditate during our
morning 10 minute 'meditation' session. Four or five people put their hands
up. So then I thought, this is REALLY daft. So I invited the ones who wanted
to meditate to take themselves off to a different room where they could
meditate in peace without the constant distraction of the people who didn't
value it. (Jack will back me up in saying it really is constant...) I decided
to
invite - and I stressed the word invite, since I think it is entirely an
individual's
business whether he or she meditates, prays, howls to the moon or whatever
provided it doesn't interfere with anyone else's peace of mind - the others to
try a range of alternative mind-calming, meditative-style exercises. Some of
them seem to like it. Some don't see any point in it. That's up to them. So
now all I ask is that people just sit quietly for that 10 minute period, so that
there can be just a little space and peace in what is normally a frantically
busy, noisy and exhausting day.
Incidentally, I don't know who made the remark about being 'disappointed' to
Jack. Personally I make a point of not wanting to know who has or has not
'joined'. I love 'em all and respect them as people - even though they drive
me crazy every day - regardless.
For the record: I have been a member of the SES for more than 40 years.
During that time I have questioned absolutely everything - sometimes directly
and openly, sometimes privately within myself. Many times I have come very
close to leaving, but so far I have always, after much soul-searching (OK, OK,
maybe there is no such thing as a soul, but you know what I mean for
heaven's sake) come to the conclusion that at the core of it is something that
to me is infinitely valuable. I don't think I need feel apologetic about that.
(And I'm happy to try to explain it if anyone asks.) I am an enthusiastic
labour
voter. I love jazz. I don't wear long skirts. Neither I nor my husband have
ever subscribed to all that 'subservient woman' stuff (which incidentally
seems quietly to have more or less died of its own accord). I teach academic
philosophy, which encourages me to think scepticism healthy. I do, however,
believe passionately in the basic freedom and integrity of every human being,
and his or her right to respect. I do my damndest - though it might not always
appear like that - to put that belief into practice in my work. I have taught
in
other schools, and I think that on balance St James nowadays does a pretty
good job.
Greetings to all,
Katharine Watson